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		<title>It&#8217;s Not Even My Birthday!</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#160; We&#39;ve all heard that when you get a business lead, or a referral, or a phone query, or&#8230;something along those lines, we should follow up. Of course we should. And we should do it in a timely manner. &#34;Well,&#34; you ask, &#34;what is a timely manner?&#34; In my opinion, it is within 24 hours. [...]]]></description>
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<p><span style="font-size: 14px;">We&#39;ve all heard that when you get a business lead, or a referral, or a phone query, or&#8230;something along those lines, we should follow up. Of course we should. And we should do it in a timely manner. &quot;Well,&quot; you ask, &quot;what is a timely manner?&quot; In my opinion, it is within 24 hours. Now this doesn&#39;t apply to a phone call from your mother, but I covered that in another post titled, Why Doesn&#39;t Anyone Return My Phone Calls? published back in February &#39;09.</span> </p>
<p><span style="font-size: 14px;">Most of us are following up with phone calls and emails. Now phone calls are an excellent way to follow up but it has some definite drawbacks: phone calls are VERY time consuming, and a large percentage of the time you get voice mail and have to play phone tag. In order to do that, you have to keep track of who called whom and when. You have enough to do without adding that stress to your business life. Emails. Ahhhhh, emails. Everyone does emails. They&#39;re quick, they&#39;re easy. But again, EVERYONE does emails. In fact emails are used for more than just follow up, and therein lies the rub. Most people don&#39;t open all their emails because they get so many of them and most of them are bullsh&#8230;.t. I mean, spam. Emails have lost their meaning and impact. Oh woe is us! What to do?</span> </p>
<p><span style="font-size: 14px;">I have a solution.</span> <span style="font-size: 14px;">Send a greeting card. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 14px;">&quot;Are you kidding,&quot; you ask?</span> <span style="font-size: 14px;">No, I&#39;m dead serious.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 14px;">What is your first thought when you get a greeting card? What are you feeling when you have it in your hand and you haven&#39;t opened it yet? Your first thought is, &quot;Is it my birthday?&quot; The answer is no. Your second thought is, &quot;Gee, I wonder who this is from and why they&#39;re sending me a card?&quot; You&#39;re checking the return address. You can&#39;t wait to open it and see what it says. <em><strong>Let me ask you something &#8211; do you feel and think this way about emails?</strong></em> Do you know someone who DOES feel that way about emails?</span> </p>
<p><span style="font-size: 14px;">Now you are thinking of objections to using greeting cards aren&#39;t you?&nbsp; &quot;They&#39;re so expensive!&quot; &quot;They&#39;re so inconvenient to buy.&quot; &quot;I have to write in each and every one, stuff and stamp and take them to the post office.&quot; &quot;I can never find on that says exactly what I want to say.&quot; &quot;What if I get a paper cut?&quot;</span> </p>
<p><span style="font-size: 14px;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"><strong>Check this out </strong></span>- and remember, these are <strong>REAL PAPER GREETING CARDS</strong> that go through the <strong>U.S. Post Office.</strong> What if you could write one standard card and send it multiple times to people, or send it to many, many people at one time with just a click of a mouse? What if you could set it up so that it sent out cards to many people <strong>AUTOMATICALLY</strong> as many times as you want whenever you want? What if each card costs less than $1.00? What if you could upload pictures into them, or even make the card out of your photos? You may notice that in the above picture there are cards with our photos on them and some that we got from friends with their photos on them. What if you could insert your <strong>ACTUAL</strong> signature? What if you could use your actual personal handwriting? What if you could do all this on your computer from anywhere in the world and <strong>SOMEONE ELSE</strong> would print, stuff, stamp and mail the cards for you?</span> </p>
<p><span style="font-size: 14px;"><strong><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">What if you could try this service out FOR FREE?</span></strong></span> <strong> </strong></p>
<p>Would you take a few minutes to try it? Would you really, or are you just going to read this and then forget about it? Can you see how it could help your business and/or personal life? Do you see how this could be more effective than email, and actually save you money from whatever marketing you&#39;re already doing? If you&#39;re putting ads in phone books and on billboards, you are wasting your dollars! If you&#39;re creating enormously expensive magazine ads, how&#39;s that working out for you? If you&#39;re not creating relationships with your existing customers or prospects, they will likely never keep doing business with you because they perceive that you don&#39;t personally care about them. </p>
<p><span style="font-size: 14px;"><strong>Do this NOW!</strong> Go to <a href="http://www.sendoutnow.com" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.sendoutnow.com?referer=');">SendOutNow</a> and click on the banner.</span> <span style="font-size: 14px;">The founder and CEO will personally walk you through sending a card to someone you love and we&#39;ll pay for it. What have you got to lose? 15 minutes of your life? Give me a break! If you want to help your business bottom line, then this is the tool for you.</span> And if you just want to send Christmas or birthday cards to friends and family cheaper and having more fun than you&#39;ve ever done in the past, then you gotta try this out. </p>
<p><strong>To your business success!</strong> <strong> </strong></p>
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		<title>Blue Ocean Strategy? What the @#$% Is That?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jun 2010 21:28:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8211;&#62; There is a book called “Blue Ocean Strategy” that talks about uncontested market space and making the competition irrelevant. Here is the main concept: if you market in a specific niche or market like the others do in that same market or niche, then you&#8217;re doing what&#8217;s called Red Ocean marketing. This means that [...]]]></description>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">There is a book called “Blue Ocean Strategy” that talks about uncontested market space and making the competition irrelevant. Here is the main concept: if you market in a specific niche or market like the others do in that same market or niche, then you&#8217;re doing what&#8217;s called Red Ocean marketing. This means that you are all getting bloody trying to compete with each other for a finite market share. Each of you is trying to out-do each other in a market that has a limited number of customers, a limited price point, a limited profit margin, a limited everything! Let me give you an example. Let&#8217;s take pizza.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">All the pizza places (Domino&#8217;s, CiCi&#8217;s, Pizza Hut, etc.) are using T.V. commercials, mailed flyers, magazine and newspaper ads, radio ads and more. Everyone is doing the same thing. How low can their prices go before they&#8217;re losing money? How many customers can they reasonably get? What can they possibly do that the other companies haven&#8217;t already done, but the bottom line is this – it&#8217;s still <strong>PIZZA!</strong></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">Pepsi competes with Coke and all the other soft drink companies out there. All they can do is package differently or change the taste. That&#8217;s about it. And what can the other soft drink companies do? What can an insurance company offer a potential customer that the other insurance companies are not offering? What can a car manufacturer offer a potential customer that the other manufacturers are not offering? What can a retail store offer potential customers that other retail stores do not offer? You see what I&#8217;m getting at here?</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">Whatever your product or service is, chances are you&#8217;re just killing yourself by trying to out-do the other companies in your market. You&#8217;re all beating yourselves bloody in the name of competition.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">But you ask, “What else can I do?”</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">Well, let&#8217;s look at Cirque du Soleil. There were two major circus giants who were known as the best in the industry. Other smaller circuses tried to compete in the same market and got nowhere. They all tried to use animals, tents, performers doing the same tricks and what happened? The small ones stayed “small potatoes” or went out of business entirely, and the two circus giants, due to the declining economy, had to raise prices, cut back performances and/or quality, down-size, etc. And the more they did this, the fewer customers they had. That becomes a vicious cycle to nowhere.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">So, did Cirque du Soleil follow this formula? No! They created a completely different market and a totally different business model, and even did this with their prices doubled and tripled what the normal circus prices used to be. And they dominate that market! They don&#8217;t use animals. They use use artists/performers and use story themes in their shows. Wow!</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">What about Apple? As the electronics market evolves, companies who create new technologies are the ones who prosper. What about green energy? Same thing there.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">Blue Ocean Strategy is about creating NEW markets by creating new products, technologies or new services, not competing in the same old, same old.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">Even the MLM industry falls victim to the red ocean strategy. It never fails to amaze me that people who want to quit the corporate world and go into business for themselves choose an MLM business that <strong>IS COMPETING WITH EVERYONE ELSE</strong> in the same industry. Health products. Electricity. Insurance, for crying out loud. Kitchen ware. Why would you do that? How in the world do you think you will become successful?</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">Now this is interesting – a totally new product/service comes along that <span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>NO ONE ELSE</strong></span> is doing, that the entry fee is ridiculously low, that is cutting edge, like Cirque du Soleil, and do people want to get involved? No! They instead join a company that is one of 20 others just like it. And yet they have high expectations of success. They work hard for a short or long period of time, they invest lots of money and effort and time, and then they quit. Or they just marginally get by. Then they go tell everyone they know that MLMs don&#8217;t work. Or they jump to a different MLM company that is, again, one of many doing the same product/service. And these are <strong>NOT</strong> stupid people!</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">So tell me, if you had an urge to begin your own business and you are drawn to the MLM business model, <em>which, seriously, is the only way to set your own work schedule and salary limit,</em> wouldn&#8217;t you want to put the odds in your favor? Wouldn&#8217;t you consider a company that had a low entry fee, that was super easy to do, that was growing like crazy and that had <strong>NO COMPETITION? </strong></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Okay, I read in a book by Noah St. John that the reason I haven&#39;t reached any of my goals is because something that I&#39;m totally unaware of is holding me back. He said that I have to figure out what it is that is preventing me from moving forward and then deal with it. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay, I read in a book by Noah St. John that the reason I haven&#39;t reached any of my goals is because something that I&#39;m totally unaware of is holding me back. He said that I have to figure out what it is that is preventing me from moving forward and then deal with it. Is it some deeply held belief? Is it something I &quot;learned&quot; in my life experiences? Is it something I just made up in my head with no basis whatsoever? Is it something I read on a bathroom wall? (that reminds me of a phone call I need to make)</p>
<p>What is my problem?</p>
<p>I stayed awake for several hours last nite trying to come up with the &quot;Great Aha!&quot; Man, it was tough, let me tell you! And I could only think of two things that made an impact on me: 1) it would require lots of work (heck, we&#39;re working hard already!) and 2) it would mean long periods without my wife Sara nearby (I don&#39;t like that! Maybe I&#39;m co-dependent?) Another possibility is that I have too many expectations of others and don&#39;t want to be disappointed (like I&#39;m not already!)</p>
<p>So, what is my problem?</p>
<p>What am I afraid of here? Do I not want to lose friends by outgrowing them? Am I afraid of rubbing shoulders with rich and famous people? Would my responsibilities increase somehow? Would people I don&#39;t even know be suspicious of me or think poorly of me out of jealousy or their own prejudices? Should I even care? Would I have to dress better? (God, I hope not!)</p>
<p>What is my problem?</p>
<p>I suspect that this blog will be have a sequel, since I haven&#39;t come up with any answers yet. I do know that I need to figure this out and soon.</p>
<p>So&#8230;until then&#8230;uh, whatever.</p>
<p>P.S. You may think that this has nothing to do with business, but you would be wrong. This has to do with EVERY aspect of our lives and perhaps you could be thinking about what&#39;s holding YOU back! Just a suggestion.</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 May 2010 19:03:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8211;&#62; What is the most important thing, in my opinion, you can do in sales and marketing? Follow up!! I&#8217;ll say it again, Follow Up! Somewhere, somehow, sometime, you will get a lead for your business. It may be through the many different advertisements you put out or through your networking. It may be through [...]]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal">What is the most important thing, in my opinion, you can do in sales and marketing?</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Follow up!!</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I&rsquo;ll say it again,<span> </span>Follow Up!</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]-->Somewhere, somehow, sometime, you will get a lead for your business. It may be through the many different advertisements you put out or through your networking. It may be through a referral from an existing customer. It may be through your email campaigns or your Facebook ads or Google ads. It may be through Twitter or some other social network. It may be through your direct mail campaigns. No matter how you get them, leads have to be followed up on. Or with. So I don&rsquo;t use perfect English here, so sue me.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]-->Statistics show that most businesses follow up only once or twice. <em><strong>Maybe</strong></em> 3 times. And of course, people being as lazy or busy or distracted as they are, they don&rsquo;t respond to those follow ups. It has been found that the company willing to follow up <strong>6 or more times</strong> usually gets the response and the sale. And that&rsquo;s the truth! Some may call it legalized stalking. Well, don&rsquo;t forget you want to follow up, not bird dog, harass, harangue or smother. Nor do you want to lurk, ambush, slink, or skulk. Trench coats are not the uniform of the day. Business is hard work and follow up is one of the methods used to get sales. Follow up can be done in many different ways, just as advertising and marketing can be. One of the best methods besides phone calls is to send a greeting card or two. They can be set up to be sent automatically and someone else will do the printing, stuffing and mailing. You can send one for less than $1.00. If you would like to find out more, go to <a href="http://www.sendoutnow.com" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.sendoutnow.com?referer=');">http://www.sendoutnow.com</a> to try it out for <strong><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">FREE</span></strong>. Follow up is the most boring and frustrating part of the sales process and it&rsquo;s very difficult not to take the non-responses as personal rejection and become discouraged and of course, give up. But once again, the one who perseveres gets the rewards.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">You&rsquo;ve got to be willing to do what most others won&rsquo;t, and that&rsquo;s follow up. Do it wisely. Do it consistently. And do it legally. But you gotta do it!</p>
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		<title>After 2064 Years, What Have We Learned?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Apr 2010 21:52:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#34;The budget should be balanced, the Treasury should be refilled, public debt &#160;should be reduced, the arrogance of officialdom should be tempered and controlled, and the assistance to foreign lands should be curtailed lest Rome become bankrupt. People must again learn to work, instead of living on public assistance.&#34; Sound familiar? Who wrote this, do [...]]]></description>
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<p>Sound familiar? Who wrote this, do you suppose? It was Cicero in 55 B.C. <strong>Holy crap!</strong> 55 B.C.! See any parallels with our society and government? So if nothing changes after 2064 years, why are you worrying about the economy? About crime? About who&#39;s in office or who&#39;s going to be in office? Who cares about who&#39;s going to be voted off the island or lose the most weight? What difference does it make who is America&#39;s next top model or who wins the dance contest? Start paying attention to the choices you make in your <strong>own</strong> life. Begin to take action on the things you actually have control over instead of fussing about things that are out of your control.</p>
<p>Want to know what else hasn&#39;t changed? Business practices. With the global population increases, most companies still think that advertising is the key. It&#39;s not. Advertising may get them in the door, but what keeps them coming back is relationships. Statistics have shown that 60% or more of sales comes from <strong>REPEAT BUSINESS.</strong> And there is no repeat business if there is no relationship of some kind. Good relationships make the world go &#39;round. Bad relationships make the world go &#39;round. That&#39;s what life is all about. So how do you begin a relationship? How do you grow a relationship? There is a key word here. It&#39;s called &quot;personal.&quot; You have to get personal with people and show you care about them. If you don&#39;t like people, then this isn&#39;t going to be easy for you. Who said, &quot;No man is an island&quot;? I thought it was Hemingway but it turns out it was a guy named John Donne in 1624. Wow, even way back then people knew it was about relationships!&nbsp;</p>
<p>&quot;All mankind is of one author, and is one volume; when one man dies, one chapter is not torn out of the book, but translated into a better language; and every chapter must be so translated&#8230;As therefore the bell that rings to a sermon, calls not upon the preacher only, but upon the congregation to come: so this bell calls us all: but how much more me, who am brought so near the door by this sickness&#8230;.No man is an island, entire of itself&#8230;any man&#39;s death diminishes me, because I am involved in mankind; and therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee.&quot; &#8211; John Donne</p>
<p>You may notice that there is no new thought here. All this stuff has historical precedence and all we have to do is learn/research it. But I&#39;m saving you the trouble. Just pay attention to our blogs and you will learn all you need to know about relationship marketing and growing your business in a way that will keep it thriving.</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Apr 2010 22:35:40 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This past weekend, after being inspired by seeing all the wildflowers on our way to and from Austin, Texas, Sara and I went to Lowes and bought a butt load of plants and flowers and stuff to replace what we lost in the freeze this winter. I just finished my second day in a row of digging, planting and watering, and my back (among other things) is killing me! I probably should not have tried to do it all in one or two days &#8212; I could have done a little each day this whole week, but NOoooooo! <em><strong>Instant Gratification</strong></em> is my middle name.</p>
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	Hey, you know what? This is just like networking! And luckily, I can make a blog out of this, so here goes.</p>
<p>Developing and strengthening your business depends, not on sales, but on relationships. After all, you can&#39;t have sales without relationships. People generally do business with people they know, trust and maybe even like. Low prices don&#39;t always make the sale. Sometimes is a matter of convenience to where the customer is and most times it&#39;s because the customer perceives some kind of relationship with your business. It could be good customer service. It could be that you&#39;ve been locally established for 30 years and they feel you are trustworthy. It could be they heard of you by referral. It could be because they know you personally. It could be any number of relationship-related reasons. Just plain newspaper and T.V. ads don&#39;t convince people to do business with them because anyone can make an ad or commercial and when was the last time you saw or read someone <strong>HONESTLY</strong> saying, &quot;Yeah, we aren&#39;t the best and our stuff is just like the guy down the street, but we have a really clean store and I smile a lot?&quot; No one in their right mind is going to make themselves look like less than God&#39;s gift to whatever! So, knowing that, why would you believe anything they say?</p>
<p>Business is about relationships, and you have to plant the relationship seeds and water them and tend to them a lot in the beginning until the relationship roots take hold. Then you can back off a bit but continue to maintain contact in different ways. Well, just like the new plants I planted this week, it takes lots of work in the beginning, but the payoff is <strong>BIG</strong>! Like anything else, you get out of it what you put into it, and if you don&#39;t put any effort into relationships with your customers or suppliers, you&#39;re most likely going to have a bumpy business ride. I don&#39;t think that doing relationship building is going to hurt in any way, but it may take a bit of getting used to if you&#39;ve never done that kind of thing before. Check out our other blogs for the step by step on how to establish and maintain relationships. You may be surprised to find that you&#39;re doing some of those things already, especially since most of them are natural. We just do what we&#39;ve seen others do instead because if they&#39;re all doing it, then it must be what to do, right? On the other hand, look at how much money is being spent chasing sales and research how little it&#39;s paying off. Don&#39;t follow the business masses! Set yourself apart and be more successful! Not only is that the name of the game, but it&#39;s ultimately more rewarding on so many levels.</p>
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		<title>What Do You Attract?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Apr 2010 18:26:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This past weekend we headed up to Austin from Houston. Along the way we encountered vistas of the famed Texas Bluebonnets. The views were indeed awesome! We also had to avoid a plethora of parked cars along the highway shoulder. It seems that many, many (did I mention &#34;many&#34;) people who, seeing these fields, hillocks [...]]]></description>
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<p>This past weekend we headed up to Austin from Houston. Along the way we encountered vistas of the famed Texas Bluebonnets. The views were indeed awesome! We also had to avoid a plethora of parked cars along the highway shoulder. It seems that many, many (did I mention &quot;many&quot;) people who, seeing these fields, hillocks and pastures of bluebonnets felt compelled to stop and pose with each other and their families and their dogs/cats for pictures. They were standing or sitting or lying down in the flowers. They were pointing and waving and smiling. Some were sneezing and coughing and their eyes were watering and itching because of the allergies, but hey, who cares? These are <strong>BLUEBONNETS</strong> for crying out loud, and you don&#39;t get to see them but once a year! What an attraction these wildflowers have over us! If only we could monetize this somehow!</p>
<p>So that brings up the question, &quot;What Do You Attract?&quot; Or better yet, what is it about your business that attracts customers to you? Is your product or service what attracts people to do business with you? Is it your wonderful compelling marketing approach? Is it that you have pictures of bluebonnets on your web site?</p>
<p>Let&#39;s look at this for a minute. What makes the bluebonnets attractive? Well, they involve scarcity because they only bloom once a year. They are different from other flowers because they are &#8230;uh&#8230;blue. And look like bonnets. And they exist almost extensively only in the wild. And they are mostly unique to Texas. Does your business have characteristics similar to these? Are you providing a product or service that is unique and that people are looking for? Is your marketing different from the everyday corporate stuff you see other businesses use &#8211; for example, do you foster relationships with your customers instead of treating them as just faceless people? Do you promote once-a-year events or pricing? Do you give <strong>VALUE</strong>? What do you do to make your business stand out? What will make people pull over and park on the side of the road to check out what you&#39;ve got?</p>
<p>How can you make your business <strong>ATTRACTIVE</strong> and not just the same old same old? Step back a bit and take a good look at your business and your business goals from an outside perspective. Start thinking outside the box. Brainstorm with other people for ideas. Take surveys. In short, if you were the guy or girl on the street, what would compel you to do business with you? What would make ME want to see what you&#39;re offering and make me want to buy it?</p>
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	These are questions you should be constantly asking yourself. Everybody and their brother is trying to sell something. We&#39;re inundated with all the advertising every day in every way. If you don&#39;t want to get lost in the crowd, you need to come up with ideas to make potential customers see you and hear you and more importantly<strong>, WANT WHAT YOU&#39;VE GOT!</strong></p>
<p>As for me, I&#39;m taking an antihistamine for my runny nose. Thank God the bluebonnets only come out once a year!</p>
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		<title>Leaving A Legacy, Not &#8220;Stuff&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 20:34:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#39;s the little guy being eaten by the dinosaur. Will his friends and family remember him? Well, that depends on what he did in his short life. Did he only hunt and eat (and hide)? Did he try to collect trophies from all his kills? Maybe the furs to show off to his buddies? Did [...]]]></description>
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<p><span style="font-size: 16px;">Here&#39;s the little guy being eaten by the dinosaur. Will his friends and family remember him? Well, that depends on what he did in his short life. Did he only hunt and eat (and hide)? Did he try to collect trophies from all his kills? Maybe the furs to show off to his buddies? Did he have a REALLY NICE upper class cave decked out in the latest stone furnishings and with a water view? Did he have a leadership position in his community? (I&#39;m guessing he didn&#39;t, otherwise he would have delegated someone else to get eaten.) </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 16px;">Or was he the kind of guy who helped others? Did he try to solve problems of others? Help build things for his friends? Did he carve thank-you tablets to people he knew going through tough times? Did he deliver wild flowers to people who needed cheering up? Did he share his food when the hunting was good? Was he a family man? Did he only club his wife and drag her into the cave once a month or did he do that more frequently? Did he ever help her with cleaning the cave? <br />
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<p><span style="font-size: 16px;">What am I trying to say here? Well, even though this guy is a gonner, either he&#39;s just a footnote in the history of the tribe or he&#39;s going to be remembered in stories told around the campfire and maybe even have a monument erected in his honor. His kids (if they didn&#39;t get eaten, too) will learn from all that he took the time to teach them and pass on his legacy to others. His wife will remember him fondly while she&#39;s being clubbed by her next mate.<br />
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<p><span style="font-size: 16px;">What has this all got to do with you? I&#39;m glad you asked me! Times haven&#39;t really changed all that much, you see. We are not so much remembered for our accumulations as we are for what humanitarians we are, or should I say, &quot;were.&quot; While the people in your legal will may appreciate the stuff, eventually the stuff will get used up, spent or maybe sold. But your LEGACY, that&#39;s a different story. This is what lasts through the ages. This is what people, perhaps even those who never knew you personally, will remember and tell others. And that&#39;s really what life is all about isn&#39;t it? </span></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">He who dies with the best legacy wins!</span><br />
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		<title>Don&#8217;t Feel Appreciated? Join The Club.</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Interesting thing happened yesterday. I was on Facebook and I saw a status update from a friend of mine. It was about an issue he was having with someone else. Many of the responsive postings from his friends were on there and they mostly said what I thought were the usual tired, unimaginative things you [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting thing happened yesterday. I was on Facebook and I saw a status update from a friend of mine. It was about an issue he was having with someone else. Many of the responsive postings from his friends were on there and they mostly said what I thought were the usual tired, unimaginative things you hear every day from boring, unimaginative people. I felt compelled to post something that I thought would make them laugh and lighten up. Maybe get them thinking a little. Guess what? No one responded. Hell, I don&#39;t think anyone even noticed! After another several predictable responses from the same or new people, I put another post up that was a twist on my first one. Did anyone comment? No! I found my wife and began criticizing the seemingly limited mentality of the public in general and those people on Facebook specifically. I ran them down pretty good, I&#39;ll tell ya! Sara smiled at me and effectively summarized my tirade when she said, &quot;You don&#39;t feel appreciated, do you?&quot; BAM! That was it! I was depending on others to appreciate and validate me! Do you do that too? So here&#39;s the deal. Here&#39;s a quote from Abraham-Hicks (see abraham-hicks.com) to put it in perspective. &quot;See this world as a free world, and see everyone in it as trying &#8211; through their individual experiences &#8211; to find their way back to that calling, back to that Source Energy. And even though there are billions of them going about it in a way that is different than you would choose, there is no right or wrong way. In other words, bless them all and get on with the only thing YOU have any power about, which is opening or closing YOUR vortex to YOUR state of Well-Being.&quot; What Abraham-Hicks is saying is this: YOU have control over your own thoughts and feelings, which in turn create your life experiences. What others think or don&#39;t think of you has no bearing on anything. YOU give yourself validation and YOU appreciate yourself for who you are and everything will turn out fine, in spite of any surrounding environments. In fact, YOUR reality will be exactly what you want while others struggle with trying to ineffectively CONTROL their own circumstances. So&#8230;I&#39;m appreciating my own self. I give myself permission to be who I am. I am beautiful, valuable and worthy, whether others see it or not. I realize that others, including YOU, are also as beautiful, valuable and worthy, as I am. To our success&#8230;</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here it is, a brand new day. You just woke up and you&#39;re preparing to go to work or just start your day in general. What are you thinking? How are you feeling? Do you turn on the morning crap&#8230;I mean, news on your radio or T.V.? Why in the world would you sabotage yourself [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here it is, a brand new day. You just woke up and you&#39;re preparing to go to work or just start your day in general. What are you thinking? How are you feeling? Do you turn on the morning crap&#8230;I mean, news on your radio or T.V.? Why in the world would you sabotage yourself that way? Haven&#39;t you had enough doom and gloom, blame and recriminations, death and destruction? Do you <strong>DELIBERATELY</strong> decide what your day, week, month or year is going to look like? If you&#39;re like most people, you <strong>DON&#39;T</strong>. We belong to a very big club, you and I. Oh we may make some quick plans in the morning but as soon as we hit the door we&#39;re fighting fires, solving problems &#8211; in short, we&#39;re reacting to things that happen around us. We&#39;ve been doing this all our lives. It&#39;s second nature, isn&#39;t it? On the one hand, we want results. We want answers. We want sales and referrals. We don&#39;t want to waste time and money. We don&#39;t want to feel frustrated. We don&#39;t want mistakes. And yet, it seems that those things are just what we get. In fact, it seems that those things are almost ALL we get! How can we turn this around? Well, you&#39;ve come to the right place, Bunky, &#39;cause I can tell you. We need to live <strong>DELIBERATE</strong> lives. What does that mean, you ask? Well, it means, first of all, that we do things <strong>on purpose</strong>. It means that we stop rubbing elbows with the woes of the world. Stop feeding ourselves with the trash of other people&#39;s sorry lives. Stop listening to the media. By media, I mean newspapers (remember those?), radio, T.V. What could they possibly offer us? They are nothing but negative information. They evoke just about every bad feeling imaginable &#8211; horror, fear, anger, shame, guilt, you name it, they serve it up. And does it make a single difference in our lives? Can we do one damn thing about any of it? You bet your ass, we can&#39;t! Not really. We&#39;ve seen the T.V. reports. We&#39;ve heard that horrific language and anger of today&#39;s excuse for music. Next, let&#39;s focus on things we want or want to happen. Let&#39;s write them down and get specific. For example, today, I want to meet 3 potential clients and make 1 new sale. I will remain calm no matter what happens at work. I will call my wife today and tell her how much I love her. I will look for a shortcut home from work to avoid traffic and if I cannot do that, I will listen to a self improvement CD while sitting in traffic. Tomorrow I will make 4 phone calls to (fill in names here). I will eat a healthy meal for lunch, with no carbs, no refined sugars, no saturated fats. See how this works? Plan everything. Sure, there will be setbacks. But instead of reacting like we used to, let us deliberately resolve to stay calm. Each setback is not the end of the world. <strong>This is important:</strong> we don&#39;t feel guilty if we have a rough time getting started and make some mistakes or can&#39;t follow through. If we can&#39;t do it today, we can do it tomorrow. Let&#39;s set aside some time during each day to just relax and count our blessings. All we need is 5 minutes. Just doing this alone will transform our lives and our business. There is so much more of these types of things that can be done, but this is the beginning of a new day, a rebirth of ourselves, if you think of it that way. Its the first step on a new journey. Small changes in our attitudes or actions can, over time, make such a huge difference! What&#39;s easier, staying stuck in the same old knee-jerk rut of a sucky, frustrating life, or making some small simple changes that can transform us and everything around us?</p>
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